Sex Dictionary

Where to begin? Compiling a list of sexual terms, abbreviations and slang is an ambitious project, but we'll have a go. We decided to include the terms as used in the UK, so for the benefit of our American readers, "fanny" means "vagina" not "buttocks". Also we decided not to include anything which everyone would be likely to already know, and medical terms which you wouldn't expect to use in every day language.

We will of course be adding to this dictionary all the time - who knows, one day people may start to find it useful! If you know of any terms not included which should be, email us with them.

Term:Meaning:
A2MAss to Mouth, see below
AC/DCBisexual
ActiveThe dominant sexual partner, in gay sex the partner who does the penetrating
A levelsAnal sex
AnalingusOral sex involving the anus
AsexualLacking in physical attraction to either sex
ASLUsed in chatrooms to ask a person's Age Sex and Location
Ass PlayStimulation of the anus, not necessarily by penetration
Ass to MouthSexual act popular in porn films, where the penis is withdrawn from the anus and put in the mouth.
AuntieAging male homosexual
Auto-eroticismSelf stimulation; masturbation
Bait and SwitchA scam involving escort agencies whereby the girl advertised is not the one who provides the service
B and DBondage and Discipline
BarebackUnprotected sex
BBBFBareback Butt Fuck
BBFBareback Fuck
BBBJBare Back Blow Job
BBWBig Beautiful Woman
BDSMBondage and discipline, Domination and submission, Sado-Masochism
BestialitySex involving animals
BFPBound For Pleasure
BiShort for Bisexual
Bi-CuriousUsed to describe someone who is predominantly straight but unsure of their sexuality, or someone willing to experiment with gay sex
BirdcageThe anus
BisexualSexually or emotionally attracted to both males and females
BJBlow Job; common term for fellatio, thought to originate from 'below job'
Blood SportsSex with a woman during her period or sexual acts involving the drawing of blood
BottomThe submissive partner, in gay sex the partner who is penetrated
BoxVagina
BuggeryAnal sex
BukkakeJapanese term for the sexual act where several men ejaculate on a woman's face
Butt PlugSex toy designed to be inserted in the anus and kept there by the natural contraction of the anal sphincter
C2CCock to Cock; gay sex
Camel's ToeUsed to describe the appearance of the female groin area plainly visible in tight clothing
CATCoital Alignment Technique
CBJCovered Blow Job; fellatio where a condom is worn on the penis
CBTCock and Ball Torture
CDCross Dresser
CIFCum In Face
CIMCum In Mouth
ClippingA scam involving the ripping-off of a prostitute's client by taking money without providing a service
Cock RingA ring or strap worn around the base of the penis to restrict the blood flow which helps prolong erection and delay orgasm
Coital Alignment TechniqueSexual position similar to Missionary but the male rides higher so his penis stimultates her clitoris
CottagingSlang term for gay sex in public toilets
CoveredSex with a condom
CowgirlSexual position where the male lies on his back and the female rides on top of him facing him
Cream PieThe vagina or anus containing visible semen after intercourse
Cross DresserA person who enjoys dressing in the clothes normally worn by the opposite sex, not to be confused with Transvestite
CruisingOpenly seeking a, usually gay, sexual partner
CumAs a verb, meaning to orgasm; as a noun, the semen or vaginal fluids produced during orgasm
CumshotEjaculation
CunnilingusOral sex involving the vagina
CutCircumcised
DDFDisease and Drug Free
DeathwishUnprotected anal sex
Deep ThroatFellatio where the penis is pushed down the throat
Dining At The YCunnilingus, so-called because of the Y shape of the female genital area
DoggingA form of exhibitionism / voyeurism mainly in the UK with its own set of rules and etiquette, which involves sex in or on the car in public places such as car parks, picnic areas, laybys, while others watch and are sometimes invited to join in
Double AnalSexual act where two penises enter the anus
Double PenetrationSexual act where the woman is penetrated by two men simultaneously, either with one entering the vagina and one entering the anus, or both entering the vagina or both entering the anus
Double OvenSlang for double penetration
DPDouble Penetration
DPPDouble Pussy Penetration; sexual act where two penises enter the vagina
Dry HumpingRubbing one's genitals against a partner while fully clothed
Eating OutCunnilingus
EnemaFluid which is injected into the rectum via the anus, for medical purposes or to cleanse the rectum ready for anal sex
ExhibitionistSomeone who enjoys showing their body or performing sex in view of others
FacialSexual act where a man ejaculates on a person's face
FannySlang for vagina
FellatioOral sex involving the penis
FistingSexual act where the entire hand is inserted in the vagina or rectum
FlufferSomeone who performs oral sex, usually on porn actors, to keep them aroused before beginning filming
FSFull Sex or Full Service
GangbangSexual act where a person has sex with many men one after another
GapingView of an open vagina or anus
GFEGirl Friend Experience
Glory HoleA hole in a wall, usually in public toilets, in which a man can insert his penis to have sex with another person without seeing them
Golden ShowerSee water sports
GreekAnal sex
HandjobSexual act involving masturbation of a man by another person
Hard SportsSexual acts involving defaecation
Hard SwappingIn swinging, swapping partners with another couple and having full sex with them
HeadrushSexual position where the female lies on her back with her legs over the male's shoulders and the male kneels while supporting her abdomen thus her body is almost upside down
HJHandjob
HungShort for well hung; a well endowed male
ImpotentUnable to gain or sustain an erection for long enough to achieve intercourse
IncallA visit by a client to the prostitute's location
IntersexualA person with both male and female sex organs
Knee TremblerSexual position where the male stands and the woman is facing him with her legs around him supported either by the male only or with her back to a wall
LolitaAn underage girl who has sex with older men
LunchboxMale genitals, especially seen through tight underwear
MFSMassage and Full Sex
MILFMother I'd Like to Fuck
MissionarySexual position where the female lies on her back with the male on top facing her with his legs between hers
MMFMale Male Female; threesome with two men and one woman
MMMFMale Male Male Female; foursome with three men and one woman
MOSMember of the Opposite Sex
MOTOSMember Of The Opposite Sex
MOTSSMember Of The Same Sex
MSSMember of the Same Sex
O levelsOral sex
OTKOver The Knee
OutcallA visit by a prostitute to the client's location
OWOOral With Out; unprotected oral sex, fellatio without a condom
PassiveThe submissive sexual partner; the partner who is being penetrated
Pearl necklaceEjaculation over a woman's breasts or neck area
Post-opA transexual person who has had gender re-assignment surgery
Pre-opA transexual person who has not yet had gender re-assignment surgery
PrickSlang for penis
PussySlang for female genitals
PSEPorn Star Experience
PuntA visit to or from a prostitute
PunterProstitute's client
QueeningFace sitting
QuickieSex in which there is no foreplay and lasts only a short period; a sexual position where the female sits on a surface with her legs wrapped around the male who is standing up
Reverse CowgirlSexual position like the Cowgirl but with the female facing the male partner's feet
RimmingAnalingus
RussianSexual act where the penis is rubbed between a partner's breasts
SandwichThreesome
Service providerProstitute
ShemaleSlang term for a pre-op male transexual
SnowballSexual act in which semen is passed from one mouth to another after oral sex
SodomyAnal sex
Soft SwappingIn swinging, having sex in front of another couple or swapping partners without having full sex
SPService Provider
Spit roastSexual act in which a person is penetrated by one man and performs oral sex on another at the same time
SpoonsSexual position where both partners lie on their sides facing the same way with the male penetrating from behind
STDSexually Transmitted Disease
SwitchA male who can be active or passive during gay sex
TopActive partner, usually in gay sex the partner who does the penetrating
TransexualSimply put, someone who was born with the anatomy of one gender but the mind of the other
TransvestiteA man who dresses as a woman
TSTransexual
TVTransvestite
UncoveredUnprotected sex; sex without a condom
VersatileA male who can be active or passive during gay sex
VoyeurSomeone who enjoys watching others have sex
VWEVery Well Endowed
Walk-upBrothel
WankMasturbate
WatersportsSexual act involving urination
WGWorking Girl
WheelbarrowSexual position where the female begins on all fours then the male lifts her legs and penetrates from behind so that she is supported only by her hands
Working girlProstitute
WSWatersports



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